Thursday, March 27, 2014

INSPIRATION FOR THE DAY

HEARTBROKEN

Here's a song from the time I was heartbroken.

I have been tossing in bed
Till late every night
I work like a maniac
Hoping to divert my mind

Deep down inside
I know it ain't working
You still are there,everywhere
I feel you presence with me

Oh! Why does it have to be so

Every bus and taxi ride
Every city's light shining bright
Every guy with a smile
They haunt me day and night

What if its' you who broke my heart
You keeping tabs on me from the start
The mystery you is such a big part
I cant resolve, I don't want

The extra baggage
Its made for you and your kind, yet still
I feel the need for you to be here
You have gone, Now let me go

Every bus and taxi ride
Each city's light shining bright
Every guy with a smile
They still haunt me day and night

They all remind me of you
I know it wasn't love that was
But it's something deeper inside of me
I want to let it out, but am scared of you

for you, you haunt me day and night
Good bye

Wednesday, March 26, 2014

INSPIRATION FOR THE DAY

FEELING MORE THAN

SORTING THROUGH MEMORIES

Hi, i am sorry if I have been a bit out of it but now that my exams are finally over, i can Chill-ax. So i was cleaning my book shelf and saw that I had collected quite a lot of stuffs and then did a strict, 'I NEED THIS THE REST IS FOR SALE' plucking out.There I found out all these notebooks from seventh and eight and ninth standard. All the seventh standard notebooks were filled with classic, cheesy love songs and poems. I couldn't believe that it was me who had actually written them. Eight standard was all heartbreak poems with some figures drawn which suggest that my friends and I were quite serious about the 'reproduction in animals & age of adolescence' chapters. #childish. Std ninth was all notes shared with my friend Ish and some ideas for the tattoo I am going to get when I am legally on my own.

I FELL IN LOVE

I was friendless, lonely
I hated myself
Couldn't stop thinking
What would life be the other way

Till the day I first saw you                    
You turned the game
Couldn't stop thinking
What life was your way

I always spied you
Didn't know why
Always thought you would
Cross my life

Couldn't stop desiring
Wanted you for myself
You made me
Crazy enough

When your eyes met mine
I would go numb
You just touch me
I'd be in heaven up

Didn't know what happened
Couldn't stop thinking about you
You became my dream & wish
I was crazy enough

I think I fell in love
You made me fall in love
Love-love-love
Yup, I fell in love.



Wednesday, March 19, 2014

STOP BULLYING

STOP BULLYING

BULLYING


Phoebe Prince, Tyler Clementi. You may not know who they are but enter it in your search engine and  well, you wouldn't exactly be happy. They were two teenagers. Teenagers grow up to be adults. Did they? No they didn't. In fact they didn't even grew up and are both now dead. It comes as a pretty shocking fact, to be able to kill someone at such a young age. Even surprising is that they were able to kill themselves. Two teens going to school and living in a college dorm respectively, both from families who loved them and both having not really any thing wrong with them. But the reason that they are dead, they just didn't fit in with the rest of the popular kids at school. The first one was a popular girl who was strong enough to accept her mistake and ask for forgiveness and the other one a guy who is not here just because of the narrow mindedness of his roommate. they have a similarity though, both of them were bullied.
          
Phoebe Prince                                          Tyler Clementi
class, race, religion, gender, sexuality, appearance, body language, personality, reputation, image, strength, size, ability

All the above are reasons for which you can be bullied. Keeping with accordance to the Oxford Advanced Learner's Dictionary, which i have now on my table, bullying means to frighten or hurt a weaker person.
Its been observed that in the States, 32% of children report bullying and 4% of the teenagers have dared to come out to report cyber bully. 
 Bullying has been classified into two forms.
  • Direct bullying  - which involves physical aggression
  • Indirect bullying - which refers the the victim being socially isolated from the rest.
Bullying though has come into highlight only in the 2000's. The first ever National Bullying Prevention Week was observed in 2000 in Canada. 
Since then, its been almost a decade and a half and in the least we have laws being made against it. 
But why are people bullied?
 It's been noted that the abuser feels empowered by dominating others. These others, cited victims are targets of bullying. It has been observed that at the hard end, the victims posses poor social problem solving skills. The abusers are also psychologically strong and maintain high social standards whereas the victims are emotionally distressed and socially marginalized. 
The contexts in which bullying harms the youth are : Cyber bullying, Disability bullying, Gay bullying and Sexual bullying.
Every year, there are about 15- 30 cases of suicides among teens due to bullying. Surprisingly, this context has its own page at Wikipedia titled Bullycide.